The man flesh and I were in a poly relationship, but it went south due to massive amounts of crazy on the part of the girlfriend. I am contemplating opening it back up again, only this time, *I* get the girlfriend.

The thing with Poly is the total need for honesty and discussion. A lot of people just see sex with other partners and think WOO HOO! PLAYTIME! It's not that way at all. It's a lot of freaking work.